DIL CHAHTA HAI

 




DIL CHAHTA HAI

People often wish for many things and expect them to become reality.

Dil chahta hai! Yes, we tend to expect so many things in our lives that we often end up cribbing and fussing.

But does the expectation always need to be fulfilled?

Desires are feelings that knows no limit and expectations many times get you trapped in feelings that leave you emotionally fragile.

As human mind always feels that expectations should meet. However, learning flexibility helps in keeping oneself grounded. Having said that, keeping expectations are not always bad. A reasonable amount of expectation is good as it helps in balancing bonds in any relationship.

So, let the dil wish, desire and expect but let the mind keep a watch.

Akshat Rassay

23-1-24

Comments

  1. AnaghaApril 29, 2024 at 7:05 AM

    Wow! So brilliantly expressed... thoroughly enjoyed to read! Keep writing👌💫

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  2. SoumyaApril 29, 2024 at 9:31 AM

    Akshat ,!! I am spellbound by your expression and choice of words !!

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  3. Pratiksha Kush 's mammaMay 2, 2024 at 5:19 PM

    Amazing write up . A short but meaningful and true art of living lesson, thank you Akshat.

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